I SAID, YOU SAID

Join the jury – debate, discuss, and engage with a real-life case!

The Jury is In!

Two students meet up at a party. The story of their hook-up is clouded by alcohol. Are both to blame? Join our jury, hear the case, and decide for yourself! Where do you draw the line, and what does your school policy have to say about the situation? Our adept, compelling presenters challenge common rape myths and tear down conventional consent and rape defenses. At the end of the case study, our presenters share personal stories to touch hearts and motivate the entire audience to move from bystander to upstander.

DIVERSITY AND INCLUSION

Can use various gender configurations.

ACTIVE PARTICIPATION

Online or in-person interactive polling and Q&A.

RESOURCE PORTAL

Handouts, discussion guide, and
vetted links to online expertise.

REAL RESULTS

Data-driven impact on attitude,
knowledge, and behavior.

Learn about consent policies and incapacitation standards. Our skillful, entertaining presenters confront common rape myths and reveal conventional defenses.  When is someone too drunk to be able to give consent? Is it possible for one person to feel violated and the other to believe the same experience was consensual? What if neither party can remember exactly what happened—is anyone at fault then?

Get all the answers while emphasizing how EVERYONE has a role to play as an active bystander ready to intervene.

“I Said-You Said” has been hosted for the new student orientations at Dartmouth University, Brown University, the University of San Diego, Haverford College, the US Naval Academy, Hamilton College, Holy Cross University, and many others.  We have performed it for military bases, parents, police officers, corporate employees and more from coast to coast!

VERSIONS OR CREATE A CUSTOMIZED SCENARIO

We have various “settings” for a wide variety of audiences, or we work with you to create a scenario and setting that best matches the needs of your group: High School, College, Military, Corporations, Faith Groups and Parent Organizations.

FORMATS

  • Large group audience for 45-75 minutes
  • Large group, break into smaller groups (by age, gender, position, etc.)
  • Large group, break into 2 groups by gender (or gender affiliation)
  • Large group, break-out groups, return to large group

TECH NEEDS

  • 2 Handheld microphones for presenters
  • 2 microphones for audience participation

“I’m going to make sure girls are comfortable so that if something is happening that they don’t like, they are willing to say something.”

Senior Boy

Noble & Greenough School, MA

Choose COS Presenters Best Suited for Your Community

Amanda Blaugher

Amanda Blaugher

Ryan Rajtik

Ryan Rajtik

Gordon Braxton

Gordon Braxton

Nyk Robertson

Nyk Robertson

Michael Tull

Michael Tull

Jeremy Davis

Jeremy Davis

Pam McGarvey

Pam McGarvey

Quinn Drew

Quinn Drew

Christian Donovan

Christian Donovan

Dan Schrader

Dan Schrader

Tierra Barber

Tierra Barber

Katie Koestner

Katie Koestner

Arias Abel

Arias Abel

Todd Kamenash

Todd Kamenash

Ryan Shank

Ryan Shank

Carrie Lennox

Carrie Lennox

Stephanie Greiner

Stephanie Greiner

Tanner Marcantel

Tanner Marcantel

Samantha Leonard

Samantha Leonard

Sarah Weaver

Sarah Weaver

Lisa Marie Hicks

Lisa Marie Hicks

Marcus Jones

Marcus Jones

Jess Ettell

Jess Ettell

Travis Marshall

Travis Marshall

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